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Sunday, August 18, 2013

Once Again, The First Day Of School


School starts again tomorrow in Frankfort, Kansas, and; as promised, this story will appear again on this site, because the school here in Frankfort has not seen fit to come into compliance with safety standards observed by schools in other parts of Kansas, and has not come into compliance with federal law concerning the presence of weapons on school property, bullying, or student safety. The only change made is that credit shall be granted where it is due: the name of the errant and uncorrected guidance counselor who has been granted carte blanche to endanger children is Tom Schroeder.

Anyone who's listening, I will tell you a story. It's a true story, and it happened in October of 2009. Thankfully, it had a happy ending.

My oldest daughter used to be quite the avid cross country buff when she was thirteen years old. She was good at it, too. But one day, while she was at practice, and I was at home, just assuming that all was well, her coach drove past my house, stopping to talk to my eight year old son. Mr. Coach wanted to know if Mr. Eight Year Old had seen his older sister. Mr. Eight Year Old had not. No one had seen my daughter in over two hours. She was lost. Why was she lost? Because her coach had dropped her off by the side of a highway, four miles south of the town we live in, by herself, and just left her. It was part of cross country practice. No supervision. If she had been stung by a bee, had tripped and hurt herself, or had some other medical emergency, no one would have been there to help her. (at this juncture, you should know that I offered to volunteer to help with cross country, but since I do not attend a Christian church, my offer was rejected. The school staff thought it better to take chances with a child's safety in the way I just described) When my daughter realized that she did not know her way back, she started to wander on a side road, hoping it would bring her to a house, or another person. This area has a lot of commercial farms, and there were no houses or places my daughter could go to for help.

Back to my eight year old son.......Twenty minutes went by. While he did not realize the signifigance of his conversation with Mr. Cross County Coach, (also Mr. Guidance Counselor) he did realize that no one knew where his sister was, and it was getting later and later, and no one was looking for her. So he told me about it. I looked all over town, called all her friends, searched the school (why was the school left unlocked after everyone had gone home?) and finally started home to call the police, when a couple of senior boys drove up with my crying daughter in their car. It was still within a few minutes of when I found out she was missing, but this cross country coach had known all afternoon, and had not called the police, or spoken to me. Why? I guess whatever he cared about, it WASN'T my daughter. Well.........I actually DO care about my daughter. Nowhere else have I met a teacher that did NOT care, at least a little, about the children he teaches, but I think that is what the problem is with Mr. Cross Country Coach/ Guidance Counselor.

Suppose it was not young men from her school who found her, but a dangerous person? I have been told time and time again by the people who live in this small Kansas town that "those things don't happen here", and "there ARE no dangerous people here", but there was a sex offender whose address was within half a mile of where my daughter was abandoned. The police were quick to point that out, but the principal only argued his harmlessness as a sex offender with them and the school board is not worried about the incident.

My children no longer participate in cross country at their school. It isn't safe.

6 comments:

Fowl Ideas said...

With the truth comes responsibility. That's why everyone fears it.

Juli Henry said...

You are definitely correct about that, but in cases like this, I am a lot more fearful of what would happen to a child if a teacher abandoned him or her at the wrong minute of the wrong day in the wrong place. I consider myself extremely lucky that my daughter did not become a statistic that day.

The Shull's said...

WOW! How horrible!!! I think I would no longer live in that area and (although I do not agree with lawsuits in most cases) but I do feel this would be a ligit one not only with the coach but the entire district! WOW!

Juli Henry said...

I have yet to find anything I like about USD380, especially Frankfort School. Initially, I wanted to move, but it wasn't feasible. At this point, my children attend an online district, which has proven to be a much better school academically than Frankfort. What that meant to USD380 was the loss of almost $20,000 in enrollment dollars, since I have 5 kids who are still in school. A public school district in Lawrence got that money, instead. As for lawsuits, this particular school continues to give me reasons, even though my children do not attend anymore!

Anonymous said...

Let's be clear here, if anyone is in a position to be sued, it is you. For slander. Most of this post is a lie. Your daughter wasn't running alone. The cross country kids have always been dropped off in a group. She at least started with the other kids. She wasn't on some desolate road. Tom has always dropped the kids off in the same area, and there are TONS of houses along the way. You also made a little error in your story telling (er... lying) First you say she was dropped off on the side of the highway 4 miles south of town. Then later you say she was wandering around where there were no homes, only corporate farms. Anyone who is familiar with Frankfort at all will know the whole "alone and lost with no houses" will know that your story is total bs.

Juli Henry said...

Lets be clear here, if anyone is in the position to be sued or prosecuted, it's the coach and his enablers. I don't know how under-socialized you are, but there are NOT "tons of houses" anywhere in this vicinity. You are lying. Through your teeth. Tom does NOT always drop the kids off in the same area. A week earlier, he went to Centralia. Four miles south of town and side of highway and place with no homes is all the same place, you child-abusing creep, and most of the farms here are not beholden to themselves. She was about four miles AWAY from Frankfort, not in Frankfort. And as per the situation that happened a couple of days ago in Missouri, it does NOT matter how many houses are around. Girls who are fourteen and fifteen are the MOST likely to be kidnapped and meet with foul play.

In order for a lawsuit to have merit, someone would have to lose something tangible, like income or a job. I would also have to be lying, which I am not. The coach in question ADMITTED all of it. I have every document and piece of paperwork connected to this incident. He did it. No question about it. My daughter was telling the truth. Also, if I got sued, the whole story would be revisited, but this time, in court and with better publicity. Also, the question as to why McNish does not care when a child gets abused would demand an answer, and if proceedings went that far, I'm sure someone would force her to give me one. Want that? Want the national papers to cover the whole incident? Because Tom is in the wrong, I am telling the truth, and the school enabled him to continue to endanger children. If you really believe what you typed, and if you really believe that the school was correct in it's crime, you are a thug who abuses children with your silence about child abuse.

Tons of houses in Marshall County Kansas. Geesh.