Terri Horman, I have to tell you, there are people out there who have done terrible things, and been convicted of them in court, yet still have access to their children. If what you said when your stepson, Kyron, first disappeared was true, specifically that you had nothing to do with his disappearance; then you should be fighting tooth and nail for custodial time with your daughter. But only if you love her.
You know, Terri, if you really attempted to get a hit out on Kiara's father, the court should eventually begin to treat it as if it were just another domestic violence thingie. Not that I would agree with that, but I am just sayin'..........that's how it usually goes. How do I know? Experience. I divorced my ex-husband over some similar issues. Only I was the victim. He was found guilty, he spent time in jail, he had to pay fines and was even on probation for awhile, but never lost his parental rights. In fact, most domestic violence thugs don't lose parental rights. And you were never even arrested for whatever it is that you did or didn't do to Kaine, so I don't understand why you're not flipping out over the fact that you haven't seen your daughter in over a year. On one hand, it could sound like Kaine is being manipulative, and an all-around, big meanie, but what about you? Life does not always carefully hand you everything to which you are entitled on a silver platter; sometimes, you have to fight for the things that are important to you. Why aren't you fighting for time with Kiara? Something else I know from experience: when one is a kid whose parent does not have custody, and that parent does not lift a finger to spend any time at all with one, one tends to take that personally. Don't expect Kiara to forgive you automatically.
In the other scenario that everyone seems to be considering, that you may very well be guilty of harming Kyron, I guess you will just carry on with what you are doing. You can yell and scream that I don't understand, wasn't there, ect., but every, single time I've heard that rant, it's been from someone who is guilty. And yes.........you've made comments like that, about this very subject, on the internet. Several publications from your very own state of Oregon traced the comments back to you. I have a picture here, especially for you, Terri.
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If the courts thought you were innocent, the restraining order never would have been re-upped. There are people who have been beaten within inches of their lives by abusive spouses and have not been able to get restraining orders that last any longer than a week. You must be doing something to convince a judge that Kaine is in danger.
You know, Terri, if you really attempted to get a hit out on Kiara's father, the court should eventually begin to treat it as if it were just another domestic violence thingie. Not that I would agree with that, but I am just sayin'..........that's how it usually goes. How do I know? Experience. I divorced my ex-husband over some similar issues. Only I was the victim. He was found guilty, he spent time in jail, he had to pay fines and was even on probation for awhile, but never lost his parental rights. In fact, most domestic violence thugs don't lose parental rights. And you were never even arrested for whatever it is that you did or didn't do to Kaine, so I don't understand why you're not flipping out over the fact that you haven't seen your daughter in over a year. On one hand, it could sound like Kaine is being manipulative, and an all-around, big meanie, but what about you? Life does not always carefully hand you everything to which you are entitled on a silver platter; sometimes, you have to fight for the things that are important to you. Why aren't you fighting for time with Kiara? Something else I know from experience: when one is a kid whose parent does not have custody, and that parent does not lift a finger to spend any time at all with one, one tends to take that personally. Don't expect Kiara to forgive you automatically.
In the other scenario that everyone seems to be considering, that you may very well be guilty of harming Kyron, I guess you will just carry on with what you are doing. You can yell and scream that I don't understand, wasn't there, ect., but every, single time I've heard that rant, it's been from someone who is guilty. And yes.........you've made comments like that, about this very subject, on the internet. Several publications from your very own state of Oregon traced the comments back to you. I have a picture here, especially for you, Terri.
If the courts thought you were innocent, the restraining order never would have been re-upped. There are people who have been beaten within inches of their lives by abusive spouses and have not been able to get restraining orders that last any longer than a week. You must be doing something to convince a judge that Kaine is in danger.
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